With even the most cursory glance at that photo, I'm still guessing that most of you will instantly recognize the tell-tale yellow envelope of Aunt Martha's iron-on transfers. How long have these been around? How long has good ole Auntie been tempting us with enough embroidery projects to stop up our kitchen drawers and linen closets? I'm guessing the 1930s, but does anyone really know? Please start a wikipedia page, Someone!
This little cotton hanky is my very first embroidery project, done at the tender age of 7-ish. Mom took it fresh off the clothesline, and it never left the ironing board. Incidentally that was how I learned to iron, by pressing hankies and pillowcases...now I see the connection to my embroidery hobby!! But I digress. I picked out four petite flowers to adorn each corner of the hanky. I picked out four coordinating colors for petals and leaves. Mom popped on the hoop, and I was quiet and sitting still for at least thirteen minutes. Then I promptly tossed it aside, with a "see you later!" and ran out to play Barbies with the neighbor girl. Perhaps that wasn't it exactly, but I do remember these four little flowers, amounting to approximately 47 1/2 stitches each, taking an exorbitant amount of time to finish. Sedentary hobbies are hard when your only 7-ish years old.
Mom taught me the running stitch and demonstrated the French Knot a whole bunch of times. And voila! I was doing "grown-up" stuff, just like Mom. Isn't that what it's really all about when you're little? After I tackled this monumental project, I did an ABC cross-stitch sampler of which I have distinct memories. Mom charted it all out on graph paper, then with a purple invisible marker, she transferred it onto canvas using the kitchen window as a light source. That one was dated 1982 (as is the tradition when doing samplers), and I finally got to the XYZ in high school, some eleven years later. What can I say? Barbie was doing some cool stuff in the '80s.
But so started my embroidery hobby. Over all those years growing up, I collected Aunt Martha patterns. I had a phase in which I was completely enamored with cut-work. All my thoughts were on pillowcases and dresser scarves and ways to pretty up my bedroom. Haven't done one yet.
When I married and had my own house, the kitchen was where I spent most of my time so thoughts turned to dishtowels. And of course no respectable housewife could call herself an embroiderer without having a few Days of the Week patterns in her collection. I have these Hill Billies and a set of Mammy, but still haven't taken the needle to the towel yet.
With my interest in vintage clothing, monograms suddenly seem appropriate. Yet more patterns in the collection, but at least here I can say that I've done one! My pink gingham blouse is still a favorite of mine.
I've been lucky to find some vintage patterns, too. I don't think Aunt Martha will feel jilted. With her near monopoly on the market, she always plays it "cool as a cucumber."
So naturally with all these cute designs filling up my sewing room, one day my daughter asked to start her own embroidery project.
I found some soft cotton, and together we sewed up a pillowcase. She chose some designs out of a Dover book of Baby Animals. I opened the lid on my embroidery floss box, and her eyes went wide with the possibilities. I showed her how to put on the hoop, how to make a spit knot, and she sat quietly for nearly an hour. I guess my daughter got some of those "nose to the grindstone" genes from my husband.
A little bit of pink in their ears, and this beauty is ready for her bed. Recently she bought Aunt Martha's collection of horse transfers so we're already talking about Project #2. It will be something to pretty up her bedroom, a larger piece that we can frame or maybe a dresser scarf. Truly, this is one of the joys of motherhood. Passing down skills that your mother taught you; making memories for the next generation; insuring that Aunt Martha will never stop printing those yellow envelopes.
I started my sewing obsession with embroidery and cross-stitch, too. I was all of three when my grandmother stuck a needle in my hand and started teaching me to make stitches via chicken scratch embroidery. I will say one thing about doing it that way--it teaches you to make fine, even neat hand stitches! I'm starting to teach my four-year-old niece to sew, but we haven't tried embroidery yet because she lacks the patience as of yet to do it. I may take her to Hobby Lobby and let her pick an Aunt Martha pattern to try on! She's seen me sewing and doing embroidery her entire life and so really, really, really wants to learn!
ReplyDeleteThree years old?! Holy smokes! My mother taught me crochet using the teensy-tiniest hook and thread. Same principal as your grandmother, and it worked!
DeleteI started with cross stitch--I still have the little picture I did at age 11. After that, I was hooked and have tackled some HUGE projects. More recently, I've come to embroidery. I love it!!! There are too many things that I want to make--I figure I can never die at this rate, because I'll never be finished.
ReplyDeleteI understand the obsession. Have you checked out the flickr group called Hoop Love? Dangerous. There are tons of patterns on that site!
Thanks for the tip. I'll let you know when I start my bedspread. :)
DeleteOh my goodness! These are adorable! Do you think they could help someone like me who wants to learn to stitch but has no machine? Where in the world did you acquire such a collection?
ReplyDeleteDaisy, stop by your local craft store for TONS of patterns and how-to books. No machine necessary! And then watch rummage sales for patterns to build your own stash!
Deleteoh memories! i start embroider with 7 and on hankies too...... :-)
ReplyDeletebut i sat down for days - no barbies in east germany. the hankies are still in use.
last project - camouflage the moth holes in my friends cardigans with flowers and leaves.
Good for you! Camouflage projects can be the most fun sometimes!
DeleteLove this post. How wonderful to have skills passed down to you for you to pass down to your daughter. I'm attempting to do the same. My daughter just started sewing this year and I'm hoping she'll be interested in embroidery or knitting soon! I know if I push her, she'll decide she doesn't want to do it, so I wait for her to come to me.
ReplyDeleteYou're right. Sharing traditions like needlework are great ways to impart a piece of yourself into your child's future. Every time I pick up the crafts I made under Grandma's supervision I am transported back to the place and a wonderful happy memories. The new project looks beautiful and I am sure you're proud of your daughter too.
ReplyDeleteI love the transfers. I just bought two new ones for Christmas projects. I just have to finish my apron first. I taught my daughters to cross stitch. They loved it while doing their first project. But they put it way after that. I am hoping they pick it back up when they are older.
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